Tag: mental-health
-
Security Is More Than Locks and Cameras – It’s About People
When most people hear the word security, they picture doors, locks, cameras, and alarms. These tools are essential, but they’re only part of the story. True security is not just about physical barriers—it’s about creating an environment where people feel safe, respected, and valued. The Human Element of Security Security is often seen as a…
-
Leadership Starts With Self-Leadership
When we think about leadership, we often picture guiding others—giving direction, making decisions, inspiring teams. But the truth is, leadership begins long before you step in front of a group. It starts with the person in the mirror. Self-leadership is the foundation of every great leader. It’s about managing your own thoughts, actions, and habits…
-
Calm Under Fire: Why Tactical Communication Is a Leadership Superpower
In moments of crisis, leadership isn’t measured by titles—it’s measured by composure. When the pressure rises, the ability to remain calm and communicate effectively becomes the difference between chaos and control. This is where tactical communication shines as a true leadership superpower. What Is Tactical Communication? Tactical communication is more than just talking—it’s strategic dialogue…
-
From Naïve Beginnings to Lifelong Lessons: My Early Days in Healthcare Security
“You never forget the first time you see the raw reality of mental illness—not in a textbook, but in a hospital corridor at 3 a.m.” Introduction Early in my security career, I worked at Humber River Regional Hospital’s Finch Avenue site. This was my first real exposure to the realities of mental illness. While I…
-
Building Bridges: Creating Safe and Peaceful Communities for All
In today’s world, where divisions often run deep—across politics, religion, and race—the need to build bridges of understanding and compassion is more vital than ever. True community is not defined by uniformity, but by unity in diversity. It’s a space where people of all backgrounds can feel safe, respected, and valued. My career in security,…
-
Lighting the Way: Why I Started NorthStar Perspectives
Every journey begins with a question. Mine was simple: What happened to respect? After decades in the security industry, working alongside people from all walks of life—many of whom became like family—I’ve seen the best and worst of human interaction. I’ve witnessed leadership that inspires, and leadership that discourages. I’ve seen communication build bridges, and…
-
When Leadership Hurts: Navigating Disagreement in a Community That Feels Like Family
In the security world—and especially in volunteer-driven communities—relationships often run deeper than job titles. We work side by side, share meals, support each other through life’s challenges. Over time, colleagues become friends, and friends become like family. But what happens when someone in that “family”—especially someone in a leadership role—starts setting poor examples? It’s one…
-
From Pepper Spray to Verbal Judo: My Journey in Security
In 1999, I stepped into the world of security with Canstar Security Services. A friend recommended the job because a friend of his owned the company. That simple connection launched a career that has shaped who I am today. I started in industrial security, then moved into retail at Hazelton Lanes. It was there that…
-
Leading Through Fear: Choosing Courage Over Comfort
Leadership is not about having all the answers. It’s about having the courage to ask the right questions—even when the answers might be uncomfortable. Fear is a constant companion in leadership. It whispers doubts: What if I make the wrong call? What if I lose the respect of my team? What if I fail? These…
NorthStar Perspectives 